I’m taking a break today from my usual automotive oriented post to write about something that is a very serious issue and a recent cause I took up and wanted to be a part of. The eradication of Domestic Violence in Ft. Worth, through out Texas and ultimately, our nation.
I’ve recently contacted SafeHaven of Tarrant County to see how I could use my resources to help victims of abuse. I understand that those who fail to take action, or offer support when they can are often to blame as well. While this is a very strong and arguable statement, I feel that the spirit of it is true. Failure to help is just that: failure.
Now, you might not be able to contribute money, or have time to volunteer for DV functions, but you can educate yourself. You never know when the knowledge you possess about DV might actually save someone from a life of pain, or even death.
What is Domestic Violence? Under most state laws, domestic violence is defined as any physical abuse, or threat of abuse, between intimately involved partners, roommates, or family members.
Victims of abuse often internalize their feelings of fear and anger at their situation. More often than not, the victim believes they are to blame for their situation. The classic statement here is: “If I didn’t do….then I wouldn’t get hit”, or: “my partner only abuses me when I do something wrong”, or: “I shouldn’t have made my partner angry enough to hit me”. This dialogue doesn’t only come from the victim, but is often mirrored by the abuser who is always there to reinforce the idea that the abuse is the result of a failure on the part of the victim.
What are the warning signs that often accompany domestic violence cases.
- Injuries and Excuses
- Absences from work or School
- Extremes of Self-Esteem
- Personality Changes
- Fear of Conflict
- Passive-Aggressive Behavior
- Isolation and Control Issues
- Stress Related Problems
*for an extensive list with explanations, please check Aardvarc.org*
The only thing that stands to change the domestic violence problem in our state, country and abroad is YOU. If you, or someone you know is being abused, get help. Contact SafeHaven of Tarrant County.
Let’s put an end to Domestic Violence, now!
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Thank you so much for using your blog to highlight our services! We really appreciate it!
Absolutely! Domestic Violence is all too often overlooked and that’s just not right. Anything I can do to help, I’ll do. Including getting my readers to recognize that this issue is EVERYONE’S issue. If you are reading this, you can do your part by “Liking” Freeman Grapevine and I’ll donate $1 in your name to SafeHaven. Help us reach our $1,000 goal!
domestic violence has effaced my life and was in a dv shelter with my 2 kids they helped us feel safe my kids was so happy. i cant afford to donate but send my prayers to all the women and there kids out there
Amanda, thank you for reading my post and I hope that your life has dramatically improved since your shelter experience. I’m happy that you were able to find help and move forward with life…there are so many who can’t. Swing by and “like” our facebook page and I’ll make a donation in your name. Same holds true for anyone else who’d like to have their donation represented.
Take care of yourself, Amanda…I’ll forward your prayers and hopes to Safe Haven of Tarrant County.
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