I’m taking a break today from my usual automotive oriented post to write about something that is a very serious issue and a cause I took up and wanted to be a part of. The eradication of Domestic Violence in Ft. Worth, through out Texas and ultimately, our nation.
In the past, Freeman Grapevine has donated to SafeHaven of Tarrant County in efforts to help victims of abuse. I understand that those who fail to take action, or offer support when they can are often to blame as well. While this is a very strong and arguable statement, I feel that the spirit of it is true. Failure to help is just that: failure.
Now, you might not be able to contribute money, or have time to volunteer for DV functions, but you can educate yourself. You never know when the knowledge you possess about DV might actually save someone from a life of pain, or even death.
Victims of abuse often internalize their feelings of fear and anger at their situation. More often than not, the victim believes they are to blame for their situation. The classic statement here is: “If I didn’t do….then I wouldn’t get hit”, or: “my partner only abuses me when I do something wrong”, or: “I shouldn’t have made my partner angry enough to hit me”. This dialogue doesn’t only come from the victim, but is often mirrored by the abuser who is always there to reinforce the idea that the abuse is the result of a failure on the part of the victim.
What are the warning signs that often accompany domestic violence cases.
- Injuries and Excuses
- Absences from work or School
- Extremes of Self-Esteem
- Personality Changes
- Fear of Conflict
- Passive-Aggressive Behavior
- Isolation and Control Issues
- Stress Related Problems
*for an extensive list with explanations, please check Aardvarc.org*
The only thing that stands to change the domestic violence problem in our state, country and abroad is YOU. If you, or someone you know is being abused, get help. Contact SafeHaven of Tarrant County.
Let’s put an end to Domestic Violence, now!